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Our Little Gladys Passed Away

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Oh my god, you guys,  l'm beyond devastated.  Our Little Gladys passed away last night....It was sudden and painless.  l can't even get my mind around it.  l will post more later when l'm not so raw.   Please send her some comforting thoughts,  it makes me feel so sad that she's not with us and all alone.  

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NO Lola!!! Not Glady's!!  I am so sorry!! She was Walters little widow! I don't even have words right now. You must feel numb, and be in so much shock. I want to hear more, but only when you're ready, my love. All my love, and all the sweetest thought I send to you, Todd, and little Stelly.

I'm at work, I'll text you when i get home. :crying:

 

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Thank you Rachel,  we are completely shattered.   l know this sounds dramatic, but I don't know how to be normal right now.   I don't know if l'll ever get over it. 

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1 hour ago, lolagirl said:

Thank you Rachel,  we are completely shattered.   l know this sounds dramatic, but I don't know how to be normal right now.   I don't know if l'll ever get over it. 

Are you kidding me? I know exactly what you;re going through. I was numb for months when Kitty died. The feeling of grief to losing a pet is so unlike losing a human loved one. Unless you're a true animal lover, you just don't get it. I really know the pain you're going through. I'm so sorry, hummingbird.

 

ps earlier I meant to stay Stella. :(

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I'm so so sorry for your loss Lola. That's just awful. It's totally normal to feel that way after a beloved pet dies. I cried for months after my kitty Micha passed away. All my thoughts and love to you. 

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Thank you girls,  these pugs were my first pets (aside from a guinea pig) and l have always felt so horrible when someone lost their beloved companion,  but now l really know what they are going through.  l feel a little better today because maybe the shock is wearing off, but yesterday l could have died the pain was so intense. 

l don't think it has sunk in with Stelly yet,  she has been looking around for her a little, but it breaks my heart to leave today and leave her here alone all day.  They have had each other since Stelly was 6 months old.  She doesn't know any better.  

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Oh no! I'm so sorry For you guys :((((( Our fur babies are part of the family like our children, it is devastating:( thomas lost his dog that has been living with his ex that they had since they were like 21 this past week as well. I'm so sorry :(((((

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Oh no, poor Stella! If I could babysit her I would :crying:

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Thank you girls.   This fucking sucks so hard.   l go out on the deck every night and talk to her and it makes me feel a little better.  l had a crazy thought hoping that there was no after so that she would just be gone and not afraid, or feel lost without her family.  She was so tender l just imagine her being scared.   l know my thoughts are crazy right now but l honestly feel that way right now.  l'm sure it will change when the pain subsides.

Sorry about Thomas' dog Dee, it's so sad.

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Lola I felt the same way about Kitty. Like he was a lonely wondering soul. I think that's why I went back to the vet and picked up his body for viewing. I lost it when Kitty died. I was in a literal mental fog. I remember the day I snapped out of it, was Oct 23rd. I was sitting at the breakfast table, and I could see Chuck was very upset and hurt. I was just sitting there in a daze, like I had been since the day Kitty died late sept. and I looked at him with anger, and asked what are you upset about? he said, you forgot my birthday. I couldn't believe I had forgotten Chucks birthday. I make a HUGE deal about his birthday every year. Shit, one year I took to see the Eiffel tower on his birthday. That's the moment I snapped back into sobriety. But up until then I was a zombie, a walking dead. I felt so much pain, and guilt. I still can't dig too deep when it comes to kitty. My heart immediately starts to ache that very distinctive ache, and I have to just push him aside.

Know that I'm here for you, I know exactly what you're going through, although in the end all of our experiences are unique. Sending you lots of love. Kiss Stella for me.

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Nooo! I'm very, very sorry about Gladys :crying: This is worst day for any person that has a pet, I can't put into words how sorry I am about your loss. I still cry when I remember my Pongo, and my Morris, and all of my dear pets who were part of my family. I send you, Todd and Stella all my love, I'm hugging you all three from here. 

 

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Rachel,  l remember your pain like it was yesterday and my heart ached so bad for you.  l'm feeling a little better, but l still can't really look at pictures of her and think of fond memories yet because it rips my guts out, so l just try to think her surrounding me and concentrating on keeping Stella busy.  

Thank you so much Gera,  l don't know why but it helps when l hear of people that have gone through it and end up with fond memories.    xo xo

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I know it's way too soon, but have you thought of getting another pet to keep Stella company? I know with Kitty once he got old I never wanted to get another pet because I thought it would stress him out even more to have a dynamic kitty/puppy in the house. Kitty would not have liked that at all, but then again, he was a cat. How would stella take in a new pet?

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Well, it's funny that you say that because today she started getting restless and looking for Gladys.  Stellie was the nurturer, she always cleaned Glad and watched over her so l think it is in her nature.  So l would consider it, and Todd admitted that he was looking today.   l just can't go there yet.  But it's something l would eventually think about.  

 

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awww!! I hope you guys find her the right life partner. :t4302:

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Thanks for checking in girls.  The pain is easing some, but l still break down from time to time.  Poor stellie is just depressed and kind of just laying around.   Poor thing misses her sis.   l hope she doesn't decide to give up,  l need my little sugar right now.  

l appreciate you girls check in and your kind words.  xo xo xo

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Thank goodness you have Stella. :crying: I think about you throughout the day, Lola. I'm so sorry this happened to you. :t4622:

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So l'm feeling a little better.  l still can't look at pictures of her yet because it's just too raw, but the heavy heart crushing feeling is easing up and l can talk about her and think about her and smile.  This is going to sound so queer but the night she died l went out on the balcony and looked up in the sky and l saw a little cluster of stars that looked like a paw print.  l put on my glasses and found that it was just one bright star.  l go out on the balcony every night and talk to my Gladdy Star.   l laugh, l cry, and l just talk to her and it makes me feel so much better.   l can't believe l just admitted that lol  but honestly it makes me feel so much better. 

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