Deirdre

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  • Birthday 09/04/1986

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    Deirdre
  • Age
    30
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    Female
  • Location
    Maine
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    photography, Web/Graphic Design, Crocheting, Knitting, Reading, Gardening, home makeovers,spinning, reading, fitness
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  1. That's it. I'm going to order it right now and if Thomas asks me about it I'm going to tell him I had to lol. geez. I can't stop looking at that pallette.
  2. Looks great! I love the headboard and the skulls!
  3. Thanks Em! Lo, no kidding. I definitely wont LOL.
  4. Hahha! I am :) thank you all. I love the ring!!!! it's perfect.
  5. Maybe the video won't work, but I'll post it tomorrow!
  6. Hahahha! I know right? When he got home tonight he walked in and said he had to show me something on his phone. It was this video IMG_6418.mp4 then he got down on his knee and all choked up asked me to be his wife! Brat!!! I'll post more tomorrow but I'm still in shock lol. The girls were all there and were so happy.
  7. Well, I somehow did it again.. Ok, it wasn't really my fault but another surprise got ruined apparently. So I was having a typical mommy meltdown, feeling disrespected and blah blah blah by my kids yesterday and quite honestly mother's day sucked and that got brought up. I mean it was kind of OK but I was hungover and we ordered chinese food which is what I wanted for dinner but overall I felt like shit. Also, he didn't get me anything. He told me he looked at my wishlist and didn't know what to get so I could pick what I wanted and we'd ordered it... and quite frankly I don't want to. I can buy myself things anytime. It's not the same when it's not something they picked. And if I have things on a wishlist, I feel like that's easy enough to pick because it's ALL stuff I want. I keep it updated too. So back to my venting, well when I bring up mother's day yesterday, I also brought up Thomas and how he's never going to propose. Again, just a vent and I shouldn't have said it in front of Amber, who is almost 12, but she blurts out "Thomas told me the other day he is going to propose when Aunt Rachel is here." My sister Rachel is a photographer and is coming to visit and a long time ago I had mentioned that he should secretly have her take pictures when he proposes. So she says that to me and I'm like what??? But the way she said stuff I honestly thought she was getting things confused with (a. him generalizing and (b. a couple months ago when I ruined the surprise proposing when my sister was here was brought up. Of COURSE, I promptly texted my sister and asked if Thomas had said anything to her. My sister is the master of secret keeping. The stuff I've found out she knew all along boggles my mind, and she played it off VERY WELL. I was convinced there wasn't anything to it. Because I couldn't figure out how he could have possibly bought a ring without me knowing. So I honestly left it alone and went on about my day. After that the girls and I had a lovely day. Thomas got home from work and then comes outside when I was doing some chores and said he was unhappy. So I asked him why and he said because I knew about something I wasn't supposed to and I'm like what are you talking about? He said he knew that I KNEW because Rachel called him... That right there is when I realized there was a legit plan to propose because Rachel never would have done that if there was nothing to it. Rachel called him and said that Amber had told me. I told thomas that if he hadn't said anything I really would have been surprised.. especially a few more weeks down the road when Rachel is here... I have a scatter brain when it comes to that stuff and since I had already dismissed it in my mind I definitely would have been surprised. So he was mad that I said he is the one that ruined the surprised, and my sister shouldn't have told him Amber said anything and here I am. We haven't spoken since last night. It ended up in a bad fight where he accused me of grilling Amber and making her tell me information which is BS.. if I thought she knew anything I wouldn't bother her because she's a KID. He told me last night that I "manipulated Amber" into telling me and that made me really mad and I said I wouldn't marry him ever because of it and he said he was going to throw the ring into the River when it arrived because he ordered it a few days ago dramatic much, but it turned out really awful. He's mad at me and I'm mad because it's not my fault someone said something to me. I didn't dig or suspect anything. not my fault. *sigh*
  8. I hope you ladies all had a lovely mother's day!
  9. I'm so happy for you that after a little bit of settling in you're happy with your decision. Change, even if it's wanted, can be hard sometimes but in the end better than how things were before. That's awesome that you can just sit back and enjoy your days off and not worry about all those extra things.
  10. Ugh. I had a long post and I lost it. Oh well. I am looking at foundations on Sephora right now. I had loved the estee Lauder double wear when I tried it. It felt like heaven on my skin and looked so good but after reading some reviews about how people with dry skin hated it I'm second guessing myself. I've always had pretty dry skin and I don't want to spend $40 for something I'm going to use a couple times and decide I hate lol. I loved the sponges and the bronzer in the April Boxycharm box. I just need a good base now. Plus. I've never really felt like I needed foundation. My skin has always looked pretty good but I've noticed lately I'm not very happy with how it's looking. I'm turning 31 this summer and I really think that is catching up with me. People always compliment me on how young I look in real life (always surprised I'm Amber's mom etc) and I want to keep it that way. at least for a while! LoL. I also need to start drinking more water. I'm the worst at that. My mom has skin that looks like heaven and she's 51 but she drinks so much water. I had been using this moisturizer. I'm almost done my current bottle and I don't think I'm going to rebuy it. I've used it for a few years and I've always had amazing results with it. It just isn't doing it anymore.
  11. omg. I was tearing up reading how you described cleaning the place out. Rach is right, now you can just really enjoy life and doing what you love. I can't wait to see pics of the new place.
  12. Thanks Emily. I feel really impatient now. I wasn't at all until he's the one that kept talking about it. lol. Oh well, I still haven't brought it up again. I just feel like it's gonna take him another 6 months haha. We'll probably get married in 2025.
  13. That sounds awful! I guess they didn't waste any time taking that video down.
  14. yeah, I definitely will show him my top choices. Especially because I kind of can't decide between 2-3 of them and I keep going back and forth. I love the few I chose but I can't narrow it down. That's why I feel like if I just show him those and let him pick there is still the "surprise" element there for him. I haven't brought up the proposal at all since that all happened so he doesn't feel pressured.
  15. Awwwww Mar! I would be so upset if I accidentally came across the ring and had to wait lol. Ger, I am almost 100% sure that #3 is my favorite too.